Emmanuela Okot
April 26, 2016
Love Is Stronger
Than Death
Common objects can often evoke powerful memories. For Opal Ruth
Prater, it was a shirt that belonged to her late husband. It reminded Prater of
the beautiful life they shared, and how her love for him is as strong as ever –
even 15 years after his death.
Opal Ruth wrote a this I believe
essay looking back at her experience with the loss of her husband. She spoke
about the grief that she felt when she would look at the shirt that her husband
wore every day when he would do yard work and spend time with the kids outside.
She spoke about the days without him being with her and hearing his laughter.
She reminisced over the nights they spent just talking to each other and
laughing at random things. She talked about how she reached a level of
acceptance with the death of her husband. She still has his memory living on
with her; she still has days where she hears his laughter throughout the house.
His death brought on tragedy but she realized that his life affected her and
her children's life more than his death. She believes that love is stronger
than death, and I find this to be a very interesting philosophy for her to live
by.
I personally believe that love is a
very strong part of a person's life. The definition of is a feeling of strong
or constant affection for a person. Many people have different definitions for
love some see it in a romantic manner and some see it as a thing that is shared
with all humans.
My own philosophy of love is based
off of life experiences. I believe that in love you will experience pain, loss,
and death. I believe that love and death are one in the same because for both
of those experiences you feel extreme emotions. When you experience love you
experience extreme happiness and sometimes sadness. When you experience death
you have feeling of extreme grief and melancholy. Both these experiences have
similar feelings and emotions. I believe to go through life you have to go
through these emotions and learn how to deal with them.
In Opal's this I believe essay she
went through all these emotions and came out understanding and accepting of her
husband's death. She remembered all of the good times that they experienced while
he was alive. "I believe that as long as I am alive, Dusty’s
memory will live in me. I see his eyes peeking out at me from my grandson’s
face. I find something of his spirit in each of our children." These
things help a person move on and cope with the death of loved ones. As long as
her and her family keep his memory alive the love that they had for him will
live way past the years of his death.
To
finish off Opal said "And sometimes on
a warm fall day, I catch that outdoorsy scent of fresh air and sunshine, and my
face is buried in Dusty’s shirt once more. Although I know he sleeps, I hear
his shout of laughter somewhere just ahead, and I think he waits for me.
I believe that love is stronger
than death."
The memory of love does overcome the grief of loss, in my experience too. I wouldn't agree that love and death are "one in the same," though. It's when we love (people, places, things, life itself) that we're most alive. But maybe your point is that death gives love its greatest poignance and urgency?
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