Courage is a fantastic
thing to have, but it isn’t the only important thing to have. Resolve is
equally important, if not more so. Don’t confuse the two; they are
complimentary, not synonymous. Courage is similar to putting the key in the
ignition of your car: it gets you started, but that’s it. Resolve, on the other
hand, is the gasoline in your car: it’s the real force that takes you to your
goals.
The first time I was able to discern
the difference between these two was during a kickboxing match between me and
another. About halfway through this match, my opponent found an opening in my
defenses, and like lightning, delivered a kick that broke two of my ribs and
winded me. The mentality that courage was the ultimate driving force behind me
vanished in that instant, replaced by pain and an unrelenting need to gasp for
air. Two broken ribs is an easy reason for me to back out of a match, but I
didn’t. I was afraid, but I shook my head and stepped back into the fight. That
feeling, that I would continue even if I faced being broken, was resolve.
The point of this is simple. We as
human beings are fragile, but only as bodies. Our wills won’t break from broken
ribs, or whatever overpowering forces you’re struck with throughout life,
literal or metaphorical. I am as durable as I believe myself to be. Courage is
the belief that you can face whatever opposes you, resolve is the will to prove
it.
"What doesn't kill you makes you stronger," eh? That hasn't been my experience. But I'm glad you were able to gain from broken ribs, and that your resolve didn't kill you.
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