Up@dawn 2.0

Wednesday, November 16, 2016


I honestly believe that I could not ever marry someone that I was not on any level physically attracted to. They would not necessarily have to be drop dead gorgeous but generously speaking if a girl takes care of her body she will look well-kept and that’s attractive. For instance, I am the stereotypical guy that likes thinner girls as opposed to thinner girls. Now you might dismiss me saying that is in poor taste, but if a girl is thinner that usually would mean that she maintains a physical activity schedule as well as eats right to some extent. This is not always the case but it is a generalization. There are also obvious attributes to being attracted to your mate. It is important to me to be proud of my girl and to do this I would like for her to be attractive. I am not picky however a girl can have a big or little nose thick or thin lips blond brunette or red hair for this reason I don’t believe it would be outside the realm of decency to say that I would require my significant other to be attractive. Of course, it is not the only input one must have there is also the little issue of love I must love her and she must love me. Back to the original point though I will often not even speak to women that I have no attraction to so there would be no chance of me marrying a girl that in general I would not speak to. It comes back to not being picky though there are attractive attributes about most every girl.


  1. Physical attraction is a very important part of dating in general. Nobody falls in love with personality at first sight

  2. I agree with what you say in that people first become interested in others because of how they look. That's all we see, and that's all we know about. So you have to be attracted in some way and then that's when you get to know them.

  3. There is no reason to feel shame because of this. Based on our sociological development, we develop a sexuality with no deliberation. You can't control what you are attracted to, and you shouldn't attempt to.